A Home Within Us
The zealous youth approaches Jesus with profound longing. He desires a true home in God, yet based on his own efforts. Jesus challenges the young man to allow God to be his only priority, his only attachment even on earth. The eager youth struggled with such surrender, so he went away empty.
In Matthew’s gospel, we may consider the young man as an image of the newly baptized, the youthful presence of believers. When baptismal waters settle, even youthful zeal cannot accomplish the mystery of living solely in the heart of God. Along the way to God’s perfection, that is his overwhelming mercy and compassion; there is much to let go of, as we so often cling to identities of achievement to make our lives look better than others– even in our own prayer.
Years ago, I prayed that I might live in God. Only after treacheries, I discovered my error, so I prayed to allow God to make a home in me. My naivete gave way to wiser and deeper prayer, not of my youthful pride, but of growing into a richer awareness of God’s compassion. The young man most likely matured into a wise follower of Jesus.
Our discipleship grows from within our hearts. The greatest of all calls, the hope for our place in heaven, is to make room in our lives to cling to only one thing: God making a home within us. All other perceived priorities or attachments, we need to give away or change or distribute among God’s poor.
Fr. Ronad Patrick Raab
Fr. Ronald Patrick Raab, CSC, serves as religious superior at Holy Cross House, a medical and retirement facility at Notre Dame, Indiana. He is an award-winning author and visual artist. Learn more at ronaldraab.com








